Monday, August 31, 2009

Question Of The Day......Is It Ok To Go Out To The Club With Your Significant Other?


So My homegirl Chelsea told me her and a couple of her homies has this conversation for over an hour! We all know this is a no-no but do you go to the club with your man/woman? when I say Club I mean seriously Hip-Hop club...SAU Is this how we rollin in 09'?

30 comments:

  1. I say its a definete no-no I wouldnt want my man in the club with me.Thats where I get to do my thing.

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  2. WOW...But anywho I don't think its good to go to the club with your partner he or she might take a dance as a fuck...NO MA'am Pam

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  3. Ok Ok maybe I missed something here......me and my girl live together we have 2 kids between us so we dont go out that much.But we set aside time 2 times a month 1 time I go to the club with my boys to chill she goes with her girls.

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  4. But the 2nd time we go together so Im lost on what the issue is.We like being together and every now and than we like to go to the club for the music and have a good time.So whats the issue??? Why cant a couple go to the club

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  5. Unless there is some infidelity planned of some sort but a club is not all about finding a one night stand its about fun.Why cant a couple go and have a good time?

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  6. Thats how we get messed up in this generation because my mom and paps use to go to the club back in the day all the time that was fun to them.But now its all about trying to take home some woman/man you dont know.What happened to just going to dance?

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  7. I missed where the issue comes in at me and my wife go to the club all the time.Where else are we supposed to go to get our music fix at?

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  8. Just because you with someone means you cant go? I find I have more fun going with her than I ever did when I was single.

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  9. I wouldnt go to the club with my man thats a no-no I go with my girls strictly.

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  10. You see thats what Im not understanding....ok lets be real the one's who say that they wont go with there man yall are going to the club to grind on some other dude and border on the edge of being permiscuios

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  11. Im not saying when my girl goes to the club she does not dance with other men.And when I go I dance with other woman myself but all that does is make either me or her horny and we both come home wanting some.

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  12. Thats cool but whats wrong going together? and enjoy dancing with your woman/man?.....There are only so many things couples can do to go out.....dinner....movie.....some type of sporting event and maybe one are 2 other things.So whyu eliminate something that yall can do together?

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  13. Stars do it all the time Jay and Bey are seen in the club JD and Janet.I just saw Monica and Rocko in the club this weekend together hugged up dancing with each other.

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  14. When I was younger I use to think why would I want to go to the club with my man.But now that Im in 30 club I realize why not? when I did have a man we would get dressed up and go out and it was fun like once a month.So I think going out with your man is great make both of yall horny and go home and get it in.

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  15. I rather my man's d**k get hard on my ass than another man's.I rather my man's d**k get hard on me than on another woman.

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  16. Me and my husband use to go all the time and when I had boyfriends we always use to go.

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  17. But the whole point of going to the club is to get away from the real world and play with "Toys" fo a couple of ours and dance.....that doesent mean you have to take them home

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  18. Thats entie point if you want to cheat on your spouse........

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  19. Im in the club alot because I host parties and get paid to be there.When I do that I dont go with my man that would upset the people thats paying me to be there.

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  20. But if Im going for fun than I want to go with my man I aint got nothing to hide.I dont want to dance on strange men I love my boyfriend.So I say its just fine to go with your man.

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  21. I go to the club with my husband all of the time.We both like loud music so why not I dont see the issue.

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  22. My man is the only one I go out to the club with.I dont know why that would be such a problem.I think the woman/man its a problem to plans on doing something wrong.

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  23. I go to the club with my girl all the time....I dont go by myself to pick up woman.

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  24. I think its very vital for couples to go to the clubs together.At the club your supposed to have a good time drink and listen to the music.

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  25. Think about it if your in a relationship and you get all dressed up to go to the club without your spouse.Why dont you want to get dressed up and look good for your spouse and go dance?

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  26. You go dance have a great time than you come home and get it in with each other.I would enjoy that more than going with a group of women.If I go with them Im going to have strange men pushing up on me.And I dont know about any of yall other women who got men.But if I had a man I dont want any other man touching on me.

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  27. So I say its a must that couples go to the club.There is also a mind set that different city's have about this like in L.A couples go all of the time and in NY.Some cities you might not see it as much but its fun and its something different to do every once in awhile.

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  28. Amen Ms.Ashley you hit the nail on the head

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  29. Maybe I might strange but I actually love my girl and she loves me so we want to look good for each other not anyone else

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